I’ve had some blog posts brewing for a while but as life would have it, LIFE ITSELF has gotten in the way of writing them. Work is crazy. My daugher’s sports schedule is out of control. I’m teaching more. There is too much on my plate. Whine. Waaaah. Oh poor poor me. Why can’t I do what I wanna do? (Thank you 5-year-old-me-voice-in-my-head-that-doesn’t-want-to-go-way.) No, seriously, thank you. You are the catalyst for change . . .
WAIT. Whoa. Stop.
We all (or most of us anyway) have a multitude of tasks that must be completed each and every day.
Moms, you know what I’m talking about: work, kids, school, church, volunteering, lunches, taxi services, cleaning, cooking, laundry, homework, cuddling, spending quality time with those we love. Sometimes life does get in the way because there is so much to do. Yet, we somehow manage.
What do we push to the side, though? What do we put off for another day? And the big question I’ve been coming back to lately . . . is appropriately managing time enough? Aren’t I supposed to be happy, fulfilled, joyful and kind? I’m not sure I was any of those today. Why am I so responsible in taking care of work, family/home responsibilities and my to do list while I let “me time”, “we time” and the other activities I love slip by day after day?
Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. ~ Phillippians 4:6-7, NLT
To me this says don’t get too caught up in the here and now. The here and now is transient. It is a blink of the eye in the scheme of things. God often wants more for us than the mundane life-stuff we get our brains all caught up in.
Easier said than done, right? Yet, we can go on overscheduling, overdoing, overindulging, and overstressing if we are not careful. God’s word and yoga are my remedies. Here are some other ideas to help you BREATHE and maybe even BREEZE through life if you’re feeling like me these days. Today, I am committing to living fully and incorporating some of these principles into my life more than I have lately.
Practice yoga regularly – daily if possible. Even 10 minutes on the mat can scale your temper and/or high-strungness (yes, I know that’s not a word) from a 10 to at least a 5 – maybe less. The good news is that the biggest battle is just getting there. Once on your mat, 10 minutes can easily turn into a half hour or an hour because it feels so great. Ahhhhh . . .
Take a walk or hike in nature. Nothing clears the head like some fresh air. Practice breathing and mindfulness while strolling about.
Laugh. Listen or watch a funny video or podcast. Tell jokes. Do anything besides that which causes you stress.
Play. Dance with your children. Play tag in the yard. Throw ball. Go to the park.
Back away from the computer. At the very least, disable your email for a while. (I did while writing this post.) In a world that demands we be multi-tasking mavens, this little trick is one of the best savers of sanity. I don’t know about you, but I’d rather be a Simple Sane Senorita than a Multi-tasking Mad Woman.
Prepare a meal. Methodically, meditatively prepare a meal. Stop ordering pizza and cook the most delish food your family has ever tasted. Choose vibrant flavors and colors for the salad. Prepare a new dish you’ve never tried before. Get the family involved and make it “we time” while accomplishing a rewarding task.
Pray. Meditate. Turn your attention and cares all over to God. He will listen and He will bring you peace.
Create something. Getting out of work mode and into creative mode can turn everything upside down and inside out. Draw, paint, play music, write, sing, drum. It doesn’t matter your perceived skill level. Do it anyway. That’s the point. It’s okay to not be perfect at everything. Rock Star.
Breathe. Spend 5 minutes just breathing. Pay attention to the length of your inhales and the length of your exhales. Notice the cooling sensation of your in-breath and the heat created by your out-breath. Do it now. It’s important. There . . . don’t you feel better already?
With everything in life we have a choice. We can be stressed, mad, angry people who lash out at others because we simply have too much to do.
OR
We can choose love.
I choose love. How about you?